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What is Your Calling?

We all have one.  Sometimes it shouts to us loud and clear, and other times it’s barely a whisper in a quiet room.  For some of us, we know exactly what that calling is.  If we’re honest with ourselves, we’ve always known.  Most of us, however, just know that what...

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Creating a Sexual Masochist

Creating a Sexual Masochist

Creating a sexual masochist is a process. Some masochists are sexually stimulated by pain, but many are not…initially. There are plenty of masochists out there who enjoy pain, can take a lot of pain, but cannot bridge the gap to find sexual pleasure in the pain. If you find that...

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Punishment vs. Funishment

Punishment vs. Funishment

The topic of punishment has long been debated within the BDSM community. Some see punishment as unnecessary cruelty, while others see it as simply a part of what we do. Understanding the uses of punishment and how to make it effective within your relationship is therefore essential. There are those...

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