BDSM Lifestyle Articles

The topic of punishment has long been debated within the BDSM community. Some see punishment as unnecessary cruelty, while others see it as simply a part of what we do. Understanding the uses of punishment and how to make it effective within your relationship is therefore essential. There are those who confuse punishment with funishment. Now, I know, funishment isn’t...

Guest Blog Post from The Black Toy Chest Marriage and Spanking in the Bedroom: Thoughts on Intimacy and Trust Madison Berlin from The Black Toy Chest               When my husband and I were dating, I had never been spanked by anyone before – not as a punishment or even as a playful smack. He introduced me to it one...