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Creating a Sexual Masochist

Creating a Sexual Masochist

Creating a sexual masochist is a process. Some masochists are sexually stimulated by pain, but many are not…initially. There are plenty of masochists out there who enjoy pain, can take a lot of pain, but cannot bridge the gap to find sexual pleasure in the pain. If you find that...

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Punishment vs. Funishment

Punishment vs. Funishment

The topic of punishment has long been debated within the BDSM community. Some see punishment as unnecessary cruelty, while others see it as simply a part of what we do. Understanding the uses of punishment and how to make it effective within your relationship is therefore essential. There are those...

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Marriage and Spanking in the Bedroom: Thoughts on Intimacy and Trust

Marriage and Spanking in the Bedroom: Thoughts on Intimacy and Trust

Guest Blog Post from The Black Toy Chest Marriage and Spanking in the Bedroom: Thoughts on Intimacy and Trust Madison Berlin from The Black Toy Chest               When my husband and I were dating, I had never been spanked by anyone before – not as a punishment or even...

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